Margie’s Story: Finding Herself Again in the Dating World

Margie’s Story: Finding Herself Again in the Dating World

Before:
Margie had always been independent, adventurous, and full of life. But after her long-term relationship ended, stepping into the dating world felt like uncharted territory. She wanted to approach it with an open mind, so she did what seemed like the “right” thing—she hired a dating service, filled out countless forms, and answered what felt like a never-ending list of questions. She trusted that with enough data and details, the service would work its magic and find her the right person.

But after months of waiting and a handful of lackluster matches, Margie realized something wasn’t clicking. The profiles she was matched with felt generic, and the conversations felt forced. She wasn’t looking for a resume of someone’s accomplishments—she wanted to feel a connection. And yet, when it came time to write her own profile, she felt just as lost. How was she supposed to sum up her passion for adventure, her love for travel, and her no-nonsense sense of humor without sounding like everyone else? Every attempt felt flat, and the more she edited, the less like herself she sounded.

Margie wasn’t looking for just anyone. She wanted someone who could keep up with her energy, make her laugh, and appreciate both the thrill of a spontaneous road trip and the quiet comfort of a lazy morning. She was tired of writing and rewriting, second-guessing herself, and getting matched with people who didn’t “get” her. She needed a fresh approach—one that didn’t involve another stack of forms.

After:
During our session, I asked Margie to stop worrying about “sounding right” and just talk. What did she love? What made her heart race? What moments in her life did she want to share? She lit up as she talked about her solo travels, the thrill of hiking to a stunning view, and the satisfaction of capturing the perfect photograph. She spoke honestly about relationships—how she values independence but also craves a deep, supportive partnership. And she admitted that while she loved planning adventures, she also wanted someone who could make her laugh at the small, ridiculous moments in life.

With these insights, we created a profile that felt undeniably her—bold, fun, and deeply real. Here’s what she walked away with:

Margie, 62 | Cambridge, MA
🌟 Adventurer | Explorer | Compassionate Partner

💬 About Me:
Hi, I’m Margie! Life has been an exciting journey, and I’ve collected countless stories along the way. From scuba diving in Puerto Rico at 18 to learning to cook with a farmer’s chef in Italy, I thrive on exploring new places and cultures. I’m retiring soon after a fulfilling career in counseling and photography, and I’m ready to write my next chapter—one filled with meaningful connections and shared adventures.

I’m a mix of curious and grounded. Whether it’s trying my hand at making pasta on a Tuscan farm or planning my next big trip, I love savoring the big and small moments. While I’m always up for a new experience, I also value depth in my relationships—someone who really “sees” me and values the little gestures that show care and connection.

❤️ What I Value in a Partner:
In a relationship, I’m thoughtful and aware of my partner’s likes and needs, showing care through support and availability rather than overt displays of affection. I value someone who can build trust and comfort slowly, and I’m looking for a companion who’s ready to explore the world and embrace life’s surprises with me. Bonus points if you love traveling, good conversation, and a bit of spontaneity.

🎯 Fun Facts About Me:

• I once almost bought a house in Italy—maybe next time!
• My adventurous streak includes scuba diving, cooking lessons abroad, and dreaming of living in Portugal.
• I was a medical photographer for operating rooms, capturing images for teaching materials.

🎒 What Makes Me Happy:

• Exploring new destinations and trying local cuisines
• Relaxing evenings watching Netflix (yes, thrillers are a guilty pleasure!)
• Connecting with people who are kind, genuine, and fun

✨ Looking For:
I’m searching for someone who’s kind, adventurous, and ready to create new memories together. Whether it’s traveling to the Azores or simply enjoying a peaceful walk, I’m looking for a relationship where we can grow together while appreciating the little joys in life.

Let’s take this journey one step at a time—are you in?

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Margie’s Results:
With her new profile, Margie started attracting the right kind of attention. She found herself having richer, more engaging conversations with people who truly shared her values and interests. More importantly, she felt a renewed sense of confidence—not just in dating, but in herself. For the first time in a long time, she wasn’t just searching for a match; she was enjoying the journey.